Jalen Lomax

I am currently pursuing my Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Wheaton College and beginning my residency as I continue to grow in this field. My desire to become a counselor is rooted in both representation and purpose. As a biracial African American male who grew up internationally and competed as a college athlete, I understand what it can feel like to navigate different environments, expectations, and identities.

I’m passionate about helping people become the best version of themselves—even when it feels like happiness may not be possible in their current situation. I believe everyone deserves the opportunity to feel seen, understood, and supported as they work through life’s challenges. For those who desire it, I also offer the option to integrate faith into the counseling process in a way that is meaningful to you.

You might be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure of who you’re becoming. On the outside, you may look like you have things together, but internally, there’s stress, self-doubt, or pressure that doesn’t seem to let up. You could be navigating anxiety about your future, struggling with your identity, or carrying the weight of expectations from family, culture, or your environment.

Maybe you’ve felt misunderstood, unseen, or like you don’t fully fit in anywhere. As someone from a minority background or someone who has had to adapt to different environments, you may feel the tension of trying to figure out where you belong. You might be tired of overthinking, feeling isolated in your struggles, or wondering if things can actually get better. Even getting to this point of considering therapy may have taken a lot out of you.

In our work together, we create a space where you can show up honestly and without pressure to have everything figured out. We work collaboratively, recognizing that you are the expert of your own life, while I help guide the process with care and intention. Together, we explore patterns in your thoughts, emotions, and experiences to better understand what’s been holding you back.

As we build trust, we don’t just stay in understanding. We also begin to take steps toward change. We gently challenge unhelpful patterns, develop practical ways to cope, and work toward growth that feels realistic and sustainable. You won’t have to face difficult conversations or situations alone. We walk through them side by side, at a pace that feels right for you.